Patrick Mendes has filed for divorce from Thais Ramone, ending a relationship that played out over four years of marriage and a reality-TV spotlight. In court filings this week, Mendes said the couple is incompatible and is seeking both legal and physical custody of their daughter, Aleesi.

The filing lands at a sharp moment for the pair. Just 12 days earlier, Mendes had paid a Mother’s Day tribute to Ramone on Facebook, writing, “We love you and everything you do for our family.” That message now reads like a snapshot from another life, especially after the couple’s split became public earlier this week.

Mendes and Ramone married in Florida in February 2022, then welcomed Aleesi on November 15, 2022. Their relationship became familiar to fans of 90 Day Fiance, where their marriage, family life and cultural differences were part of the draw. Now the focus has shifted from the on-screen romance to a custody fight over their only child.

The divorce details were first reported by TMZ, which cited the court filing and the custody request. The timing also adds pressure to the public image both had maintained. A tribute shared less than two weeks before the divorce news suggested celebration and unity, while the filing tells a different story: one of separation, legal conflict and a family trying to sort out what comes next.

That tension is underscored by a statement attributed to the couple, who asked readers not to rush to judgment. “Out of respect for everyone involved, we believe it’s important not to jump to conclusions or contribute to speculation before all facts are properly clarified. Domestic matters can be deeply emotional and complex, and we encourage compassion, privacy, and due process for all parties involved,” the statement said. It also added, “Our focus right now is simply ensuring that everyone is safe and supported. We appreciate the public’s understanding and ask for respect regarding their family and personal privacy during this time.”

For now, the story has moved beyond the franchise that made them recognizable. What matters next is not the breakup itself but how the court handles custody, and whether the couple can keep their private dispute from becoming a public free-for-all. A family that once presented itself in celebration is now asking for privacy while the legal process begins.